Dog Behaviour and Training 

Preparing Your Dog to Be Left Alone

Finding yourself at home for an extended period of time can bring mixed emotions. Whether you’re unwell, taking a career break, on maternity/paternity leave or locked down due to a global pandemic, the change to your routine will impact you and your dog in different ways. While time with your dog is always a good thing, they will be affected by your emotions as you navigate your new situation and there are inevitable changes in your behaviour. You might notice changes in your dog’s behaviour too; are they following you around the house, becoming anxious when you leave to go shopping or finding places to hide around the house? It’s your responsibility to make sure that their world doesn’t come crashing down around them when your routine changes again.

The key to success will be the routine you put in place for your dog. It needs to blend their daily needs with the lifestyle you will be leading when you’re no longer at home most of the time. Whether you are bringing a puppy into your family, a rescue dog or your current canine family member is experiencing a change in their routine, it’s important to adopt a daily routine.


Encouraging independence involves teaching your dog that they’re safe to entertain themselves, focus on solo activities and settle alone.

The best way to do this is through creating a daily routine. That way, they know what’s expected of them, they know what’s coming next and they won’t be confused by any sudden changes.

Think about where your dog would be left alone when you’re not at home. This space needs to be comfortable for them; a familiar space that they’re used to relaxing in and the time they spend there can be built up slowly if they are no longer used to being alone.

As much as you love spending time with your dog, encouraging independence is one of the kindest things you can do for them as they’re experiencing change with you.


Creating a routine will help your dog. They are creatures of habit and a routine helps them to feel secure in their environment. From a place of security, dogs are better able to deal with change.

The daily routine that you create needs to be maintained regardless of what is going on around you.

For example, in the morning your dog will be exercised and after a rest, will have their breakfast. They will then settle and have some time alone. There will be time scheduled in for play around midday and in the afternoon they have an activity that they can enjoy by themselves. After their evening walk, they have a rest and dinner before spending time with you. They’ll have their pre-bedtime toileting opportunity and then go to sleep. For puppies, the routine will include many more toilet opportunities!

Remember that dogs need 14-16 hours rest so by giving them the time they need to do that, you’re absolutely doing the right thing.

By adopting a routine like this, you can maintain it regardless of the changes you’re experiencing. The ‘exercise’ time can involve a number of different things if you’re not able to walk as far as usual, you need to ask someone else to walk your dog or you’re designing treat trails around the house/garden. Playtime can be a short training activity that will not only help your dog but will enhance the bond that you both have. The solo activity can be a pre-prepared brain game, a Kong or a long-lasting treat which will switch their focus from you to something they can enjoy by themselves. Within the routine, there’s room for improvisation, but your dog will be much more secure in their environment if they know what to expect.

Getting Started

The best time to start a routine is the moment your dog joins your family. The second best time is now! Regardless of whether your dog used to have a routine which has now changed or they have joined your family during a time that doesn’t represent your usual day to day life; start now and start small.

Write down the daily routine that you will commit to and make sure that everyone involved in the dog’s care is in agreement.

Make sure that when your dog is having time alone, that doesn’t become time when they’re snoozing next to you on the sofa. They need to be comfortable being away from you. Start by choosing two or three tasks a day that you can complete while your dog is relaxing in the space they’ll be left in when you’re not at home.

If you’re worried that your dog isn’t going to cope with being left alone, you can start with small games that you set up but don’t engage with your dog while they enjoy them. If you scatter some of their daily food allocation around the garden or in a cardboard box with shredded paper, they will be focused on a natural behaviour and learn that they can enjoy time by themselves. It’s much more fun for a dog to sniff out their dinner than to inhale it from their bowl.

The house rules

It’s not easy to leave your dog in another room while you’re at home, but it’s vital for their wellbeing. Along with creating your daily routine, make sure you have house rules in place, especially if you have children at home. Your dog’s safe space is a no-go area. They need to know that they can retreat to that place when they need time out.

Your dog needs their rest and if they are constantly being disturbed and they don’t have a place to rest that they know is safe, they could get grumpy. By leaving them alone in their safe space, you are showing them that you can be trusted and that’s the basis for a harmonious relationship.

Separation anxiety

If your dog doesn’t respond to their new routine or the gradual build-up of time alone, you will need the support of a behaviourist. Some dogs do struggle with being left alone and may experience separation anxiety, especially if they have become used to your company on a more permanent basis. They might display destructive behaviour at home or have toileting accidents when they’re left or they might bark or howl when you leave. You can help them, but you will need support to do this in a way that’s designed for you and your dog.

Dog lying in bed

You know your dog and you are their best advocate. If you start to see changes in their behaviour and you hear yourself saying ‘s/he’s getting worse’ then ask yourself how you can best help your dog. If they used to settle quite happily but they’re now following you around, something has changed. If they used to watch as you left the house, but now they’re barking as you shut the door, something has changed. Think about what your dog’s normal routine looked like before those changes and acknowledge the differences in the behaviour they’re displaying now, no matter how small. You can start by following the steps detailed here and consult a behaviourist for the best advice on how to help your dog.

Want to learn more about your dog’s behaviour? Read our guide on helping your dog cope with changes at home, next.

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